For nearly one and half years, I spent 1 - 5 hours most nights studying pick-up material.
I practiced picking-up women - or trying - mainly on weekends resulting in some of the
most hilarious, side-splitting moments you can imagine. I learned the hard way, the very hard way.
I am Brad, nice to meet you!
- October 22nd, 2005 |
- 0 Comments
Secrets of Seduction
Seduction is a huge topic, so I’ll post most my thoughts and experiences over a period of time. But here are some of my initial insights or personal secrets into the subject.
The relevant dictionary definition of ‘seduce’ is: to cause someone to do something that they would not usually consider doing by being attractive and difficult to refuse. In other words guys, by making a woman feel attracted to you, you can ‘make’ her have sex with you too! This definition suggests ‘seducing’ women is wrong when it’s NOT!
Here’s one of a few secrets of seduction that took me a long time to work out: women love to be seduced by men 
they really fancy! They absolutely love it! It’s a major fantasy of women: meeting a guy they don’t know, becoming attracted to him and then being seduced in a sensual way! In fact some women become offended if a guy they like doesn’t try it on with them!
Realize seduction is a game. The excitement and sexual tension comes from the challenge and women know this but most men don’t! Look at almost any sports match, the most exciting matches are the closely fought ones! It’s the same with seduction, sexual tension is amplified by the woman gently saying no and the guy being gently persistent. Part of the excitement is not just the sex, but the challenge!
But women want to be seduced properly. In most cases they won’t say, ‘let’s have s@x’! It’s up to the guy to lead the way by gently caressing and kissing, and then slowly becoming more intimate.
But understand that when a woman says NO, and it will be blatantly obvious, she means NO!
Here’s a summary of some of my secrets to seduction:
- Women love to be seduced by guys they fancy
- Seduction is a game – and you can learn to play it well
- The excitement and sexual tension comes from the challenge and not just the s@x
- Women want to be seduced properly
- The guy has to lead the way in the seduction game
Try Amazon for some more useful info: http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0142001198/104-0099088-8476775?v=glance&n=283155&n=507846&s=books&v=glance
What do you think?