Momentum

It’s pretty clear by now that the pick up community has dispelled any myths that some guys just ‘have it’. It is pretty well documented that being good with women is something that can be learned, and many men the world over have dramatically improved their love lives through PU.

However, learning a techniques and lines may improve your chances of getting laid, and getting a girlfriend, but the game cannot ‘fix’ you in the way that some people think.

For example, there have been stages when I’ve been learning the game when I’ve been on fire. I can go out, open any set with confidence, and close the hottest girls in the room. However, just because you spend one night like this, doesn’t mean that rom then on, every night is going to be like that. Whilst we will progress and learn, and leave parts of our socially un-calibrated selves behind, we will never be ‘perfect’, and we will always have good and bad days.

Momentum is a key part of PU, and the fact is that everyone has good and bad days. On a good day, everything just falls into place, and you can breeze through any blow outs without it getting you down, and most of us have probably experienced it at some stage.

Despite state control, and postive affirmations, sometimes we have bad days, where it can seem like everything we’ve learned is useless, and we cannot approach, let alone number close.

So how to maintain momentum? Setting goals is one way, as this will force you to get out more, and you be less inclined to make excuses, as you know that if you do, you will be less likely to hit your goals. If you are having a bad day, it’s amazing how just one approach can change this, and there’s nothing like number closing a hot girl to lift your spirits, and put you in a good mood for your next approach.

Think back to the feeling you got when you number closed a gorgeous girl. I’m guessing you felt pretty good right? I’m also guessing that if you then had to go and talk to another hot girl, it wouldn’t be too difficult for you.

So my remedy for curing bad momentum: Approach more! Give yourself a bit of a break, as you’re having a bad day after all, and just tell yourself that you’re going to approch x amount of women. Don’t worry about getting numbers, just start approaching. When you have a good interaction, your mood will raise, and you will have effectively turned a bad day into a good one.

If it sounds simple, that’s because it is!

Brad