- April 30th, 2008 |
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Direct Game Part 2
The primary goal of perfecting direct game is to bring the same level of confidence and worthiness that you bring when, for example; you talk to a girl who has significantly less value than you. In this situation, you have no problem talking to her or approaching her…because you believe that you are better than her! Apply this mentality to your interactions with HB 9’s and 10’s and you will have mastered direct game.
The problem with masters of indirect game is that, although they may be proficient picking up girls using said method. It doesn’t mean that they could be equally proficient using direct game, as their frame would be very different to that of someone using direct game. While using indirect game properly, you have an arsenal of tricks and routines to use on the target…your frame would be “ I need all these lines to get this girl to like me”, with direct game your frame would be “ I’m James fucking Bond”.
The problem with indirect game is that you start to use your material as a crutch, it screws with you’re mentality…you believe you’re not worthy of this women attention, so you use routine after routine to get her to like you. So what? It works! Yes…it does work but In order to skyrocket your game; you’re going to need to learn to think on your feet, improvise and evolve in set. Continuously spewing line after line, routine after routine doesn’t make you better at picking up women. It makes you a better storyteller.
Most women hate being approached. A pretty girl will get approached at least fifty times a night (probably). She hates being approached because the majority of the time she’s approached by losers offering to buy her drinks etc. How many of those guys who approach a pretty girl are cool, confident and relaxed? Not many. The average non-PUA may have a couple of these characteristics but it’s very unlikely he posses them all. Most men aren’t comfortable in their own skin; most men get nervous around beautiful women. Having a strong sense of your own reality will convey to the target that you are different. If you’re congruent you can also ignore most of the typical pickup rules…compliment her, buy her a drink! If you’re coming from a position of a strong mental belief in yourself, and are conveying that to the target, you can pretty much do what you want in set.
In conclusion, to become good a direct game, you need to work on your inner game. When you’re out and you see pretty girl on a bus, in the bookstore, Starbucks… wherever! You need to look at her and unequivocally believe that she is not better than you! Once you’ve got this mentality, your game will be far more powerful than before. One of the primary reasons PUA’s avoid direct game is the because of the fear of rejection, me just cant seem to handle it. If however you can train your mind to work on a direct game frame, the issue of rejection isn’t as important as before. “You’re the prize, her loss”.
For nearly one and half years, I spent 1 - 5 hours most nights studying pick-up material.
I practiced picking-up women - or trying - mainly on weekends resulting in some of the
most hilarious, side-splitting moments you can imagine. I learned the hard way, the very hard way.
I am Brad, nice to meet you!


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